Over the last decade, an increasing number of Australians are living in de facto relationships, while marriage rates have fallen.  Reflecting this societal change, the law was changed in 2009 (2002 in Western Australia) so that the same law now applies to separating de facto couples as applies to separating married couples.  Any financial dispute arising from the breakdown of a de facto relationship is decided by the Family Court and the Family Law Act (the Family Court Act in WA), rather than State law and the States’ Courts.

What is a de facto relationship?

The basic test is whether the parties, of the same or opposite sex, lived together as a couple on a genuine domestic basis.  In applying that test, the Court will consider factors including:

  • the length of the relationship
  • how and for how long they lived together
  • any sexual relationship
  • the financial arrangements, particularly whether the parties intermingled their finances or if one person financially supported the other
  • any joint purchase of property
  • whether there were children of the relationship and how they were cared for
  • the public reputation of the relationship and the degree of the parties’ commitment to a shared life
  • any registration of the relationship.

If a party wishes to apply to the Court for property settlement following a de facto relationship breakdown, one or more of the following criteria must also be met:

  • the parties lived together for at least two years
  • there were children of the relationship
  • the applicant made substantial contributions to the other party’s property.

A de facto relationship can exist even if one or both parties were in a relationship or living with or married to someone else.  A mistress may even satisfy the definition of having been in a de facto relationship with her married partner.

Registering a de facto relationship

Just as the State governments maintain a register of births, deaths, and marriages, they also maintain a register of de facto relationships.  While it is compulsory to register a birth, death or marriage, de facto relationship registration is voluntary.  The registration regimes differ from one State to another, however, they are similar.  Registration requires both partners to complete an application form, provide identification documents, sign a Statutory Declaration stating that they are in a relationship with the other person and pay the relevant fee.

Registration should limit or avoid disputes whether there was a de facto relationship should that relationship end.

If the relationship breaks down, there is a relatively straightforward process by which to revoke the registration of the relationship.

De facto property settlement

The laws that now determine a property settlement between a separating de facto couple are the same laws as apply to a separating married couple.

In general terms, if the Court determines that there should be a property division between the parties, the first step is to work out what is in the pool of net assets to be divided.  That pool includes all the assets and liabilities in each person’s name and in the parties’ joint names, as well as each person’s share of an asset owned jointly with another person.

Next, the Court must consider what contributions each partner made and consider their respective future needs, to work out the percentages of the net assets they will each receive.  Contributions include financial contributions – i.e. who earnt what, who brought what lump sums into the relationship, who bought and paid for what – and non-financial contributions – such as being a homemaker and parent, physically renovating a home or landscaping a garden, managing the parties’ financial affairs, etc.  Future needs are things like income earning capacity, financial resources, ongoing care of children, age, health, etc.

De facto spouse maintenance

Following the breakdown of a de facto relationship, as is the case following the end of a marriage, one party may be entitled to “spouse” maintenance from the other party, although usually only for a limited period.  Such maintenance will only be ordered if:

  • the applicant cannot support her or himself because of childcare responsibilities or if she or he cannot work due to health, age or other incapacities, and
  • the other party can pay such maintenance once he or she has met his or her financial obligations to any children and his or her own reasonable living expenses.


De facto relationships are an increasingly common part of modern life in Australia.

There is a range of factors of which the Court must be satisfied to find that someone was in a de facto relationship, although it is possible to register your de facto relationship to reduce any uncertainty.  When such relationships end, the same law regarding property settlement and spouse maintenance applies as applies to separating married couples.  Arrangements for children are also decided in the same way, regardless of whether their parents were married, in a de facto relationship or not even living together.

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